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*amesftrrc
writes: Me and my girlfriend been togeder for 1 year and 3 mounts and stil counting and she and i have a best friend who is my friend since we were little. We once was talking about sex and my best friend told us that his dick is big and not so much girls can take it. After me and my gf left she told me that she is curios to see his dick . What should i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2014): She said she is curious to see it. NOT that she wants to see it. I had a friend in college who claimed to have a giant penis and my boyfriend and I were both intrigued about the size but neither of us actually really wanted to see it.
Being 'curious' doesn't mean 'wanting.'
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2014): I think the posters who told you to do nothing are crazy!. How can the OP not feel upset or annoyed about this and not do anything about this?. Tell this guy to f*** off, and tell your girlfriend to do the same if she wants to look at it!. If she really loves you, she wouldn't even consider looking!. And a true, decent friend wouldn't even make comments like that. How disrespectful!.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (9 June 2014):
Wait until the day he finally gets going serious with a girl, then ask her. She'll tell you the truth... He sounds like he needs some confidence... You could always say to your girlfriend. 'His might be bigger than mine, but I know what to do with it'. Just treat it like a joke and you wont fall out over it. Good luck.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (9 June 2014):
Absolutely nothing.
Your friend's claims of being well endowed are either true or false. Finding out won't change anything in your life for the better, but it may change them for the worst.
What if he is big? Then what? Will it affect how you see yourself? How your girlfriend sees you, or how you think she sees you? Do you want to your girlfriend to think it's ok to sneak a peek down another guy's pants?
Even if it doesn't bother you, will it add anything to the quality of your life?
Do nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2014): She said she was curious. Didn't ask for permission to see it.
Were you all drinking at the time? It's odd he would bring up such a comment in mixed company. He may have been hitting on your girlfriend a little on the sly. He figured she'd be curious by bringing it up. I wouldn't get all bent out of shape, guys who brag like that often can't back it up. Any girl would wonder. If you've never seen it, I suspect you're curious too. Does that mean you're going to check it out?
He was making big claims as players often do. He knows he's pretty safe; because he knows you're keeping an eye on her. Suggest that he keep comments about his penis to himself when he's around your girlfriend. Ask him who these girls are who couldn't take it?
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (8 June 2014):
Tell your friend to take a pic of it and share it with the world so everyone can take a peek. I bet he doesn't find time. In other words, callhis bluff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2014): Do nothing. Curious to see it doesn't mean "has to" see it.
A friend of mine got his penis pierced before and my wife, and I, were both curious to see it so I asked him to whip it out then and there. It was funny because it actually was starting to get infected, he eventually had to get it removed.
Curiosity means nothing, James. He made a pretty bold claim that he has a huge penis and she's just curious to know whether he's telling the truth.
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