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writes:Am i being silly or is there something wrong?i've been dateing my girlfriend 3 months shes 20 nearly 21 i've just turned 25since i turned 25 on the 6th of june my girl as been acting werld towards me like the day of my birthday she was tottaly on a diffrent planet from i was. she pi*sed me off and 4 the first time i've ever wanted 2 dump her.i txt her that night saying sorry 4 being a grumpy person she said " dont worry about being mean 2 me i will not lose any sleep over it " 2 me this line means " so be mean all u want its not gonna last long and u dnt mean that much 2 me 2 care.today i met my girl for the first time since wednesday i txt her all day thursday saying i love her she ignored my txt's and when i asked her if she still loved me she said " yeah i still love u " today she was tottaly cool like the other day was nofthing. we was laffing holding hands walking around in the sun.now eres my problemsits Farthers Day next weekend And my girl wants 2 go 2 blackpool (1 hr away) 2 c her dad ...... ALONE so i was hopeing to spending as much time as possible before she go's because i kind of c saturdays as my day with her.i dont see my girl on thursdays (because she picks her nephew up from nursery at noon and looks after him till 8pm and her other nephew) and sundays (not by choose buses run stupid like every hr and for the past 2 sundays shes been going out with mates)and today i sat on the bus and we was planing on takeing her nephew 2 the park we promised him 2 weeks ago and her nephew is not someone u break a promise with. and today friday my girl told me her mom was takein the kids 2 blackpool and my girl was going and i turned around and said " i'm busy but thanks for asking " i know it was cheecky to say this but 26th of may i went 2 blackpool with my nephew and family and i asked her to come she didn't because her brothers birthday is the day after.today my girl turned around and said " if u wanna come u can if ya want " and the look on her face when she said that told me other wise. it felt like she was trying to be nice but didn't want me to go so i said " ask ya mom and make show its all cool before i go " i lefted my girl at 5pm and she txted me at .20pm saying " babe im sorry but i wanna go alone with the kids " do u think that was mean? because i was looking forward 2 going.she wasn't going 2 ask me 2 goto blackpool do u think she cares about me?if she care i think she would of thought of me 2 ask and she didn't i had 2 trick her into asking me.im not gonna c my girl now till monday afternoon do u think im being silly or do u think something is wrong?my girl as never been in a longer r/ship than ours ever and i didn't ask who dumped who. thanks 4 reading i hope ya can help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): I think your over reacting to this a little. So she wanted to go away for a day? Doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Most guys wouldn't trust their girls going away, but since your just concerned that you couldn't go I wouldn't make too much of a big deal about it. If you ar really serious about her then it's guna last, and if that is true you have many more saturdays to spend together.
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (9 June 2007):
I Waited For The One is verified as being by the original poster of the question her family i've met her mom once (not on a good note)her brother twice hes a ok chap1 of her nephews twiceher mom and dad are not together, her mom lives here and her dad lives 1 hour away in blackpooli think shes trying to push me away
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 June 2007):
 After reading this, it seems to me that your girlfriend tried to be as nice as she could about this. You seemed to be kind of inviting yourself along on what is clearly, a family event. Father's Day can be very special for families to spend together.
Besides, even if you did go... wouldn't you feel like the odd-man-out?
Of course she cares. But this is a family event and she is in no way required to invite you. I think it's great that she's spending time with her family. Please don't get offended. Besides, maybe it's not up to entirely her. Maybe her Mom and Dad just wanted some alone time with their daughter and relatives.
I wouldn't take this personally. I really, really wouldn't.
xxIndia
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