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writes: I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and just recently she went on a cruise with a girlfriend. They met like 5 guys that they hung out with the whole time. She called me every night when she was going to bed except for one night she said they were tired and fell asleep unitentionally and didn't call me. When they got back from the cruise these guys drove two hours to Connecticut to hang out with them. She's been acting a little different. She say that these guys are just so nice and they like them because they didnt even try to hit on them. I went with my girlfriend and her friend up to the guys house and met them. They seem nice but very immature and perverted. I asked my girlfriend if anything happened but she starts to cry and gets very upset that I dont trust her. I get the feeling something happened but I dont want to make her cry by probing her. I feel like shes holding something back. Please help, I need to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): My friend i know its a very bad situation that you are passing through .. just be calm and try to remember from ur long relationship with her if she used to cry when u seem not trusting her if this never happened so sure something happened with these guys .
maybe she made a relation with the guy while getting drunk and it was out of control and when she woke up she knew what wrong she did . GOOD LUCK BRO just be calm THINK and go forward
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reader, Colin +, writes (28 February 2006):
I agree; the crying is definitly a sign that something happened. I long time ago this happened to me. My long time gf cheated on me; I was always suspicious and when I mentioned my concerns she would cry, then get mad about my "lack of trust". It took me two years to find out; I had to call the guy and ask him. I said that I was a Dr and she had an STD so the guy fessed up.I suggest you bore down into the details of where she was that night. Ask her this week; remember what she says; then ask her next week. If she is lying she will continue to cry, get mad; and her answers to your questions about that night will be inconsistant.I have been there and I obssessed about it.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (20 February 2006):
 The crying part may be a definite that something happened. If she didn't do anything, she wouldn't have anything to cry about. I was in that situation before and I cheated and my boyfriend found out and I cried, but I didn't want to admit it. I didn't realize I was giving myself away by crying like that. I was really upset with myself and felt really bad.
So maybe you should ask her why she is crying? If she has nothing hide, she has nothing to cry about. Unless she is really really emotional about situations, then she shouldn't be crying about you not trusting her. You just may have a reason for this. Something just don't add up to me, but you should make sure before making any assumptions. Maybe you could ask her friend and she what her reaction is.
Good Luck!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 February 2006):
 Well, your reason for being worried is a little extreme, concerning the phone call. The crying on her part though would be a red flag for me. What does she say when you ask her. Is she crying because you don't trust her or is she saying she doesnt want to talk about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): In my opinion you should ask one of the guys, if they seem like alright people it might be a good idea getting it out of them and confronting your girlfriend after.
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