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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and we are having sex often. When we start making out she gets really wet and I usually make her cum a few times before we start to make love.She really enjoys our sex and usually comes several times, which is all good. The problem is I find it hard to enjoy the sex as much, where she gets so wet it is hard for me to feel everything. I have tried different positions to see if it make any difference, but have had no luck. I am worried because further down the line it may be harder for me to keep an erections because its mostly using my imagination thats helping me at the moment. Is there anything I can try to get a bit more out of the experience??Any advice would be greatly appriciate! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Tell her. I'm sure she'll work with you to fix it. My boyfriend told me that this is a problem for him so I went online to see what we could do. If you have a good relationship, you should be able to talk about anything. I'm going with the mid-way baby wipes. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone who has responded, everyones information has help and educated me, so I really appriciate you all for taking the time to add your suggestions.
I will be using these suggestions and hopefully all will go well.
Thanx again :)
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 October 2006):
 Behold the power of babywipes!! Kleenex might just get sticky and leave scraps of paper all over the place, not to mention it's dry, so it hurts. But baby wipes aborb and are painless! Just keep some by the bed, and after she comes just wipe her down.
Tell her you don't want her dripping all over the sheets! I'm sure it'll be no big deal if you just do a little wipe in between coming.
Happy orgasms!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): I dont think she would be upset if you told her, but it depends on how you tell her. If you say "your too wet I cant feel anything" then she is going to be upset but if you explain it to her in a way that she knows its not a fault then she sould'nt get upset, my hubby just tells me if im too wet I want him to enjoy it too so I just pop to the toilet and wipe myself a bit.
I think it affects how much we feel too, if Im too wet then I cant really feel much either. so maybe your gf is feeling the same as you but is scared to say anything in case she hurts your feelings too.
Just be honest and open with her, you both adults and once you sort it out I'm it will feel better for both of you!.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006):
Its not a bad problem to have.....
You could try viagra to maintain the erection with the decreased friction.
Kegels might help her to tighten up.
Or finish orally, anally, or maybe boob job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): The resaon your gf is getting too wet is because your making her cum a few times before sex, us ladies actually cum like you lads do you know!, when we orgasm we secreet fliud the same stuff as our natural sexual lubricant.
So maybe if you didnt make the lucky girl cum more than once she might not get as wet.
the only other thing you could do is tell her this problem you have, its not like its her fault really.
Then just before you have penetrative sex she might like to go to the toilet to wipe off a bit of excess fluid.
Have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould have said, we have also tried oral sex. She doesnt know that I am having this problem as I dont want to upset her, so have been trying to encourage her into new things.
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reader, Eliza_Nimpho +, writes (27 October 2006):
Try oral sex
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