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writes: Cupid, me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and have a great relationship. Our sex life is really good too, but most of the time when we are having sex, after a while, she asks if we can stop because she says her vagina hurts and cant bear any more sex the same night. Can you give me some advice on what the problem could be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Hi,Me and my girlfriend had the same issue. What sorted it all out is foreplay. At least 10 or 20 minutes of decent foreplay should be had each time before sex. The foreplay could be anyting from sliding ice on each other to acting out roles. It will differ from person to person. Make sure you communicate fully with her and get to know each others bodies.You should find that this gives her time to relax and be more comfy with you, and her vagina will be -without sounding crude- more moist and more flexible so the whole experience will be better.Also it should be noticed that some condoms use lubrication which basically suck. So only use ones with good lube such as durex or other known brands etc.Hope it all worked out!
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A reader, Saudia, writes (3 March 2005): Hello, I have some advice for you. The reason that your girlfriend might be telling you to stop because it hurts is because of pressure. Not that you are pressuring her, but your body is. To expain this much easier, maybe you are going to hard at it or it might be forceful. She might be tense and the vagina muscles are probably tightening,so maybe trying to have gentle sex will maybe be much easier for her. It won't hurt and the vagina should be relaxed.
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