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writes: Me and my boyfriend, I am 13, he is 14, are planning on been together forever and we are in love. We are going to get married in a hot air ballooon over the Niagara Falls for my 18th birthday and we are going to die together in Peru. lol But we are really serious and my friend is so jealous that she wants to split us up. She's trying really hard and is making us sound really two faced about each other. I really love him and don't want to lose him. What do I do /???/ HELP PLEASE!! thanx xxooxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2006): She may be jealous of you having a boyfriend. But, if she's a decent person, she's probably just craving attention from you. She may feel as though you'll forget her and skip through the field of flowers with your boyfriend. Like many have said, get a serious conversation into her and explain (only if it's true) that you will never forget about her and that you'll always be there. A serious and "heart to heart" converstion is usually what can sort everything out. :)I hope all goes well.~Your life, your world, live it your way~
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reader, Beautiful_Suicide +, writes (14 April 2006):
 She's just jealous and scared she's going to lose you..you're so lucky to have found love so early..but remember you are still young and friends will always be there boys may not..talk to her and tell her you won't like forget her even though you're all loved up..and hopefully she'll get a boyfriend soon too..and if she's still trying after that she isn't a very good friend - hope this helps! -- Sass xx
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
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you lucky thing, first of all, so glad you are happy so early on in life.
Your friend is jealous of the relationship you have because she isn't in one herself. Maybe she feels this guy is stealing her best buddie from her. sit your friend down and have a good old heart to heart. Tell her she's still your number one best friend and always will be. Good Luck!
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reader, Milli +, writes (11 April 2006):
 Take your time. Maybe your friend just wants to spend more time with you. You need to make her feel valued. If she's like she is a valuable part of your lofe, she may gain some self-wprth, that maybe she is lacking. It soudns like she would like to be ina relationship herself, maybe becasue she does not feel wanted or needed by anyone herself.Time will tell whetehr your plans for marriage work or not. Maybe you should consider that things are not always so definite as they seem. You're all so young that it;s hard to see everything in a wider context, and circumstances change. You should just value both relationships- your friends and your boyfriends- as they are at the moment. Work with them on a day-to-day basis and enjoy every bit!
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (11 April 2006):
 Firstly your only 13 and your alright thinking about marriage...shouldn't you just be enjoying your time together. and the way you say were goig to die Peru it sound sweet, creepy lol but also weird that your plannig your own death. (but that's just my thros)
So friends can handle it when other friends a centre of attention or happy or in love when there not. these type of friends are very competive - so if you got a boyfriend, you friend got get one too.
if you are as serious about your boyfriend as you say you, sxhe can't slipt you up unless you let her. so just ignore her.
but if all else fais cut her out
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