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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:you know what? i think im depressed, guys!So apart from the fact that I was searching for a summer romance and found nothing...I havent even had a summer with my friends! =[Why am i the one who has to plan the date, or even just ask someone to hang out? Why cant they?Why is it that they never have time at all for me, and as much as I try to get them to hang out all they wanna do is tell me sorry another day..I'm busyy...crap.And also...im afraid that if I keep sending texts and email asking them to hang out, it might sound like I'm needy or desperate.Should i keep trying?i really want to spend time with them.!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): If your supposed friends always let you have the initiative and make you feel unwanted, there are always other options. Like not depending on them, and making new friends. I've seen cases like this. Some for example like to feel more "important" by being invited/asked. The person can even seem to enjoy your company for hours, but is hardly capable to be the organiser, the planner. It's not your fault, remember that. Don't be so discouraged about it. You're so young. We all come accross times like these. And then we see that every cloud has a silver line. You'll make new friends. Why don't you go... to a photography club? A drawing club. Do something to occupy your time in a pleasurable way. Go fishing with your dad, etc. And don't wish to have many friends. Friends, in the ideal sense of the word, are hard to find. Companions, yes. You'll find them in different stages of school, life will bring to you many faces, and you'll be able to choose, who is to stand by you for the good and the bad and who not. Take care of you
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