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writes:Im a 16 year old gay (in closet)and im currently noticing that my girl best friend's boyfriend likes talking to me instead of talking to my friend. He looks at me whenever am not looking and he once told people that im his ex lover which was nt true and now i feel like im betraying my friend so what should i do?
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reader, CattyCat  +, writes (10 March 2015):
 Do you like this guy?
Maybe just talk to your friend, if she is as close a best friend as you say, then she will understand your worries
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2015): If he's your age, he's just being a kid and trying to be cool by running his mouth. It will catch up with him.
Before you tell her, which I don't think is really necessary, ask him to stop spreading lies. You are not his ex-lover, and people are bringing it back to you. Telling her will only hurt her feelings unnecessarily.
You should always confront the liar first. Don't go dragging a lot of people into it, just to feed the gossip.
If that doesn't work, then you have to let her know he's spreading lies that he's your ex-lover. My guess is she already knows and doesn't care; because she knows it isn't true. Don't blow it out of proportion. You're not betraying your friend. You haven't done anything. Apparently he has gay-feelings for you. He may have spread the lies so you will confront him about it. Don't go upsetting her when it is between you two. Overreacting will cause a ripple through all your friends. It isn't worth all that drama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2015): Well for starters you can't be betraying your friend if you didn't do anything, just tell her the truth about what he said and let her make up her own mind. My opinion is that either he probrably has a thing for you based on what you said
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