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My friends are all settling down but I am still single

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Question - (12 December 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *i writes:

I feel like I will never find a boyfriend, most of my friends are now settling down into relationships and I feel like the odd one out. I am in my early 20s and feel like I will never find someone to love. I have only ever been in one relationship before which only lasted a couple of months due to him cheating.I have never really ever loved anyone is that weird. I am quite shy but am always a happy, smily and caring person but no men ever seem interseted in me why is this?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 December 2015):

aunt honesty agony auntDon't rush in to a relationship, you are still young. Enjoy being single, go out make new friends, take up new hobbies, meet new people. Are their things you always wanted to try? Well now is the time to do those things.

I bet if you speak to people who have been in a relationship for a few years and are settled down they will advice you to enjoy single life while you can, the right man will be out their for you, and who knows maybe when you stop looking and are happy being single he will find you.

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia +, writes (13 December 2015):

Ivyblue agony auntDarling, I sometimes wish that I was still single because in my early 20's I wasted too much time on trying to not be the odd one out ending up with relationships for that purpose only. Tied down too early and missed out on many opportunities that being single has to offer. In your twenties what you need is your freedom to live your life in any direction in which you please. Having that journey will have you settling and staying settled later on with that special someone-Happy and content. Nothing wrong with being or wanting to be single.

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