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writes: I play a lot of soccer and other sports so I have many cuts and bruises from it. And I have very (very) huge bruise on my right arm from soccer. Anyway my guy friend saw it and freak out because he thought my boyfriend was doing it and he start questioning me my bf was beating me up (he never has and I don't think he will start) and he kept cutting me off when I tried to explain what happen. Now he thinks im denying it and wants to kill him. Plus my friend never really liked my boyfriend and said I could do a lot better the him. Any ideas. Reply to this Question
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 Take your guy friend to your soccer games :-) Better still, invite him to participate in the game, and let your soccer team mate know that he needs to be "guarded" during the game ... which translates into playing a bit rough with him so he could see that soccer is a very physical game ... LOL
That is, if you are telling us the truth that your bruises are indeed from sports. And that your boyfriend does not abuse you physically (he's a keeper then, huh? pun intended ... LOL)
Sounds like your guy friend really likes you though, and he secretly wishes that you chose him instead of your boyfriend (wink wink ..)
Cat
PS. I did martial arts when I was younger, and actually, my instructors always used the bruises as examples of what we did wrong in our moves ... LOL ... so after a while we tried to hide them .. but most of the time that did not work either ... LOL
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