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male
age
22-25,
*ohit M
writes: My frnd told to My parents about my relationship...i mean not exactly bt he told that, ur son is contacting to girls.. And my parents hate to be in contacting with girls... So plz tell me what should i tell my parents... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2017): Contacting, how? Are you contacting them through fb or random search? Or they are your classmates? I'm sure no Indian parent will be miffed about their son having friends who are girls. even in villages boys and girls are good friends. What exactly are you doing that could get your ass kicked? If you behave well and have the respect towards feelings of girls I don't see why your parents will get angry.
I've had friends who are boys/men and have often introduced them to my parents and vice versa. My parents have friends of opposite gender, especially from childhood. And why is your male friend complaining? Have you been doing something unethical like lying to girls or 'collecting' girls?
A
female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 May 2017):
Tell them the truth, what exactly is it that you are doing wrong?
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male
reader, Denizen +, writes (7 May 2017):
What do you think the reason is that they don't want you to contact girls? In western culture this would be a normal occurrence. They might even be pleased you were acting like a normal young man.
I take it you mean ordinary young women and not prostitutes? Well, you are getting to an age were you have to make up your own mind about your path in life. Are you going to be your own man, or a mummy's boy.
There will be consequences. Are you prepared to accept them and live with them? It's your call.
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