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age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi i recently kissed my male friend as a dare ans a few weeks later he tells by text me he has feelings for me. the problem is i am in love with my teacher and my friend knows it. also i dont know how i feel about my friend. he is more to me than a normal friend as we are really close but i dont find him attractive and dont have the same feelings for him as i do for my teacher. he has said that he wants me but thinks us being together wont work as i love my teacher. i think i will feel guilty if i went out with him as i love my teacher, i really need help. so do you think i should just go with him and see what happens or not?
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reader, Tevote +, writes (15 February 2008):
I know it's hard to decide, but I am in the same position as you. And i love my teacher the thing is one time i actually dated a guy and kissed him. The next 2 days I had to break up with him because I became depressed and couldn't stop crying. It feels horrible as you feel you have betrayed the teacher and yourself, as you said how much you loved the teacher and then it's hard to know if you were living a lie or not. Do what you think is best, you might have a different reaction but I was really upset when that happened to me.
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reader, adrsep4 +, writes (2 January 2008):
I'm a guy so i know how your friend feels. Give him a chance do u honestly think that you have a chance with your teacher? if you don't like him fine but don't let it be because of your teacher and don't use a lame excuse like i don't wanna ruin our friendship even if its true it'll make him feel worse.
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