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writes:I have a male friend who claims he is straight but one night we was joking around then he let me pull his pants down just for a joke then one thing led to another he let me play with his dick and feel his bum he was naked I was fully dress he as a girlfriend and he told me he don't swing that way is he bisexual I asked my self but he will not answer me he does do some sexual stuff around me but its the first time i did it to him but he does not stop me but only does it when his ladie friend is not about why this Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 October 2020):
 " only does it when his ladie friend is not about why this"
Well, don't tell me you'd expect him to do this stuff WHEN his ladie friend is around, right there , right under her nose ?.... When else you'd expect him to fool around with another person than his partner, if not when the partner is nowhere to be seen ?...
But maybe I am being too literal, all you want to know is why he does not choose, you or her, straight or gay.
Because the choice is not mandatory, and sexuality is generally way more nuanced than a neat 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual. People have a sexual orientation, and then they have curiosities, and vague, fleeting attractions, they want to explore, to experiment or to feel naughty...
This lad has a gf , yet he is not against , occasionally, getting his jollies from another male. Not a problem, the problem is , as other posters say, that this guy has a girlfriend and neither of you is showing any respect or concern for the poor girl. Very selfish and underhanded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2020): He's being a total tease and he's messing with you. He might be a bit curious and wonders what it is gay-men get-off on.
You're a gay lab-rat or guinea pig in a bi-curious experiment. I've met straight-guys who just want gay-guys to come-on to them for no other reason, but to stroke their egos. It's an ego-booster knowing you can arouse both men and women. Touching his penis is not sex. He knows you're curious too; so he's allowing you a little thrill.
If you haven't had full-on sex, or haven't performed oral-sex; he's surely messing with you. Although I'm somewhat skeptical what you're posting is true.
If you're gay, you'd know if he was bisexual; even if he denies it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2020): I agree he could be bi-curious. He could also be getting a cheap thrill out of cheating on his girlfriend. Or even justifying to himself that it isn’t cheating because you are a man. Think of American pie. He puts his penis in a pie. He doesn’t find the pie sexually attractive. It’s just a hole to put his penis in to get relief. That could be what you are. Your a willing participant so he takes advantage of that. He thinks of a women that turns him on and gets horny when you are together. He knows you will be willing to give him relief. And he thinks why not - I get an orgasm out of it, my girlfriend would never suspect anything because I’m not gay and you will be happy to go along with it. Win win in his eyes. I’d stop this before you get too attached, which I presume you already are. He has a girlfriend and clearly is not a reliable partner. You will end up getting hurt. And even if it turns out he is bisexual, he clearly isn’t ready to admit it yet. He needs to do that in his own time, you cannot force him to come out of the closet so to speak. He could even end up resenting you for being the one to ‘make him confused’ about his sexuality. There he was living a happy life with his girlfriend and then you come along and make him confront things he always kept hidden (his sexuality). You will be the bad guy in that scenario (wrongly so may I add). Stop ‘playing’ with this guy. It will not end well for you. And his poor girlfriend may I add.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2020): Sounds like he may be bi or bit curious. Expect more of these joke times in the future. And he only does it when his GF isn't around because he knows his "jokes" with you are cheating
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 October 2020):
 He is probably bi-curious, at the very least.
But why are you "playing" around with a guy who has a GF/partner?
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