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writes: Me and my friend like the same guy. They have been friends for a little while and she has liked him but he never liked her. I recently started hanging out with this girl because of mutual friends and now she is always with me an my "best friends". Well she introduced me to her guy friend and we all hung out together in a group but then me and him starting hanging out by ourselves and eventually developing a liking for one another. He asked me out and I said yes but that I felt really bad for my friend who also likes him. I spoke with her about it and asked if it would be okay and all and she said it was fine but then went and cried to all of our other friends. So now all of my friends are angry at me and I'm confused about what more I can do.. Am I wrong? I was never all that close to her and I'm closer to the guy. But everyone is taking her side in that I should tell him I can't see him anymore. But they never even had a thing.. Any advice is splendid!! Reply to this Question
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous  +, writes (6 August 2012):
You can either choose your friends or your bf. Its simple as that. You also dont know what she actually told your friends, so she could have made it out to be worse than it is. Keep in mind that a true friend would probably come to you before making such judgement. I personally would either avoid the situation or make new friends, i really dislike friends that are dramatic like that, for such a small incident like that. Probably why i choose friends that are in relationships lol. But thats just my personal prefferance.
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