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writes:okayy then.. I hope that this gets answered caus its kind of urgent!!Me and my friends are all really close and stuff (I know its weried to say that because all friends should be close but we are so much closer than a lot of other people) anyway, there is a guy who is really nice and stuff in my group and I do spend a lot of time with him, and he fancies me so it is really arkward because he doesnt know I know and Ive heard that he will ask him out on tuesday.. I dont like him in that way--he is a great friend but I dont want to go out with him.. (this comes in later Im not just babbling) and I really like his bestetest friend--he is nice to be around, funny good looking and I think him and I would be really good together and so does my friend that I told..... Im pretty sure that he likes me too because he touches me alot (like putting his hand on mine when he talkes to me and stuff like that stepping on my foot at lunch and playfully hits me) and he looks at me too see if Im laughing (which I always am(; ) anyway.... Ive liked him for a very long time now and I just want to be with him so I know hes mine and be able to kiss him and do all that boyfriend-girlfriend stuff. But my friend also likes him and Ive looked at other sites and they all said forget the boy-this girl's friendship is what matters the most but I actually dont think it is. I know it sounds selfish but he is my teen crush—and is very very important to me, and it would hurt me more to live my life without him at this moment.... The friend who is going to ask me out on Tuesday I will say all of that rubbish about I dont see you that way and I like you as a friend and stuff and I will be very nice about it . But anyway... It might make the one that I fancy (jeez this is getting very annoying not using names) think im not ready for a boyfriend and im too shy to ask him out and I think he is kind of like that too........ And it might make him think that I am a nasty person becasue I hurt his best friend. Pleeese help me out with this—I know that im just another girl having problems with relationships and time might help me out (which it hasnt for a whole and a half year!!) but it might be another girl to you and you are used to this question but it is me that is sitting here and I am stuck in what to do with my life– I have no idea wheather I should ask him out (which I really cant)or just wait and let time do its business or what really..Thanks for reading this far and I hope this helps a lot of other girls out too........Sorry for any spelling errors people:) and have a lovely life love me xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): I think when that boy whos going to ask you out asks you, you should tell him nicely why you guys wouldnt be good together and say you wouldnt want to wreck your friendship. Also, you should talk to your friend who likes the same guy you do and say how you like him too and you have for a long time. Be nice about it and say you want to go out with him but I dont want to wreck our friendship. Those other websites are right for most people but if you really want to risk wrecking your friendship with the girl and the guy that is going to ask you out then go for it. If you do wreck your friendship with them and lose the guy that you want to go out with think of all that you have lost. Time can fix somethings but when Tuesday comes you have to be prepard. If he asks you out the speak from your heart. Remember to and I still want to be friends. If he doesnt want to be friends its his loss. If you ever happen to say you do want to go out dont go out with his other friend then! that would be the worst thing you could do! You kind of have to chose between guys. (which prob. isnt hard for you) You might have to chose between your crush and your friend and other guy friend. Is that crush more important then your 2 friends? Good luck and I hope you make a good choice!
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