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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my friend has been texting a boy that i once was. she thinks i didnt know bout it but last nite i came out and told her how i feel. she hasnt taking any notice of my feelings, i dont think we are talking now but should i try and make "friends" again as a boy shouldnt come between us but if shes not taking any notice of my feelings is she a friend in the first place and what will stop her doing it again ?
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (6 June 2010):
 If you and this boy are no longer texting or in a relationship, what is the problem? Are you jealous he is no longer talking to you? You said "once was" - how long ago are we talking? Last week, last month, last year? You have no say over who she does or does not text. It really is none of your business.
From what you say, it doesn't sound as if you were romantically involved with the guy (please correct me if I am wrong) or had a proper relationship with him. Why shouldn't she text him? If you were his girlfriend then yes, I think you could have a say in the matter, but you are not, so you cannot tell her what to do. She is not harming you in any way by doing this.
Your age range says 18-21, altho I get the impression you are younger than this. I'm afraid to say, this is something you are going to have get over and to deal with as an adult. There are going to be many times in life where your friends do things you don't like.
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