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writes: This question is about my best friend, almost ex friend.I am 17 years old and she told a teacher that I wanted to kill myself (not true). She said that she still wanted to be friends and being me, I said that we could try and fix things (still wanted to be best firends). She is still talking to this teacher and telling her lies and making me look like a bad/mean preson. I want her to stop. The teacher is not talking to me as much. I want to tell the teacher that I am going to do something crazy just to make her think twice about me. I would just say that I'm going to do something but actually would not do it. I am just wondering what I can do about the so-called friend. All I can think of is beating some crap into her. What could I do about the teacher too??
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reader, Beautiful_Suicide +, writes (13 April 2006):
 I have a friend who used to lie a lot..not about me but to me and other people about herself..it can be a medical condition..you should confront her again about it and ask her why she is telling these lies and tell her you don't like it and that you don't really consider her a friend..try not to get into a fight because she might have a reason for it and just need someone to talk to..it could be that she is very insecure and wants to make herself out to be better than you though it is a bit strange that she should only say that kinda stuff to one person..try talking to the teacher about it because its not very fair if she is treating you differently because she believes someone elses lies..good luck hope this helps! -- Sass
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Talk to your teacher and put the record straight, tell him/her that they have nothing to worry about and voice your concerns about what your friend has been saying about you.
Tell your parents what's been going on and maybe you can go to the school together, and with the help of the head sort this out.
As for the friend, don't have anything to do with her, you can choose your friends and are not obligated to keep her as one, tell her your done with her.
By telling your teacher you are going to do something will make the teacher think your friend was telling the truth about you all along, if she is lying your teacher needs to know that. I can't see what good making things up will do you!
Good luck
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