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writes: This isnt really a love question,but anyway:My friend is such a pain!She is so boring and clingy,I only made friends with her because shes a loner and grew to like her,but then she changed.She bacame boring and clingy!Shes always copying me too!She acts all punk rock when shes not!She looks at me to see will I laugh before she does,even if she doesn't get the joke,she always takes my side in things even if im wrong etc etc.Shes always really jealous of me and always like I want a boyfriend,I dont know any boys though!I mean she does it constantly and is jealous of anyone with a boyfriend!Shes always nagging me and asking me where i am what im doing and why im not texting her back,she invites herself along to things when she isnt wanted there and is really annoying,I really dont want to be her friend but I have a very active conscience and i know i'll feel bad if i tell her i dont want to be her friend,i want to grow apart from her instead but she lives near me,goes to school with me and walks to school with me,what do i do?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 This girl has poor self confidence - she would not need to imitate you if she felt happy in her own personality. Instead of thinking about what a drag she is perhaps you should be thinking about introducing her to other people you know so she is not so obsessive about you. That would boost her confidence, and lessen the friendship burden on you...if you facilitate her social mixing then she may not even bother you anymore as she may find like-minded people instead.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Don't be mean but rather be subtle. Start hanging out with other people. Don't tell her of your plans. Invite others to come over to your house. Eventually she will be forced to make plans and friends of her own. Good luck.
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