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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I was recently asked to be a Matron of Honor for my best friend's wedding next year. However, she got married 5 years ago at the Justice of the Peace. Now she's having a tradional wedding/renewal of vows. Do I still throw her a bridal shower and bachelorette party since she's already married?? I mean, technically, she's not a bachelorette and she already has everything she needs as far as gifts...
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 This isn't the same situation as usual because she isn't celebrating her last night of freedom, she's celebrating five years of marriage. Instead of the typical bachelorette party (strippers, drunken behaviour etc), why don't you treat her and a few friends to a day at a spa or something?
On the other hand, seeing as she already has everything she needs in the way of saucepans and blenders etc, for the bridal shower, why don't you arrange a sort of jokey theme? Give her raunchy underwear "to keep the spice in the marriage", that kind of thing. It keeps the basic idea behind a hen night in place (girls being silly and giggling a lot), but also keeps in mind the fact that she is a happily married lady.
Have a good time!
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (10 October 2008):
Yeah, why not? I'm sure she'll appreaciate it. Maybe a spa break or something tasteful?
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