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My friend is getting too close! I don't want to be mean but how do I get her to back off?

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Question - (25 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *_LUV_MEExD writes:

Well my friend is always how you say up my butt. like when i go somewhere she says where are we going (when its not we its me) so mind you i dont want to be mean or anything but i want her to feel included in my life for example:

1) me and my boyfriend are together and she gives us a song....... like o you and his song is on the hotline - like nooo... its not up to you , then she says o but its a good song i say i greatly appreciate it but no hun she dosent talk to me for two days i really dont know what to do with this one. HelP....

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (25 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntDoes she not have any other friends?

This is when you start introducing her to your other friends, hoping that they'll hit it off and start hanging out. Or ask your boyfriend if he has any single friends that he could hook up with your friend to occupy her time.

If none of the above work, then you're going to start to have to blow her off a bit. Then she will get the hint, she's being a bit too clingy. That's the only indirect way to do it..without flat out telling her that she needs to stop being up your butt.

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