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writes: hi!just want to ask for some piece of advice..the situation goes like this: I have a guy friend let's just call him RC and a girl friend by the name of MAE. the three of us are very close friends.we use to hang-out during our free time or after our work. and as time goes by i started to fall in love with my guy friend..and of course i told it to mae..i tell everything to her, about my feelings for our guy friend and i told her to keep it as a secret..then one time when we were at the guy's house I asked mae if i could use her phone so that i could text my mom..after i have texted i noticed the messages on my friends phone..i noticed that there are a lot of text messages containing the following message:"I LOVE YOU!"and the name of RC in Mae's phone is "hon"..and I cannot believe what I just saw..I want cry but I cannot..and that same night i texted mae and asked her about what i saw in her phone and she told that it was just her petname for RC and they it's just a joke for them. that's what she keeps on telling me..and until now it still bothers me if it is true or not..i don't know if i will still trust them or not..my question is "should i believe what mae is telling me or should i not?"hope you could help me..thanks!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2012):
my EX husband used to do this and his explanation was "i love her like a friend" Yeah right.....
sorry if you are in a committed relationship you should not be telling other people you love them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012): I say stuff like that all the time to my good friends. I wouldn't worry.
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reader, Deagan +, writes (10 February 2012):
I don't think you should believe Mae. How can "Hon" and "I love you" can simply be an inside joke between them?
It doesn't seem like you have an honest friend.
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