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26-29,
*llieharrison
writes: I got really drunk one night on my friends birthday, and I kissed one of my best friends. We were both drunk and now she feels awkward around me. One of our guy friends dared us to kiss, like a peck on the lips but we ended up full on snogging. I'm bisexual, but I've only told a few friends, her not being one of them. I don't fancy her at all but she feels a bit awkward around me. She said she needs to stay away for a bit and sort things out. What does that mean, and will we ever be friends again?
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reader, ellieharrison +, writes (28 September 2011):
ellieharrison is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): It looks like she's taking what happened far more seriously then you are.
Either she's a little bit homophobic or she enjoyed it much more than she anticipated and she's now feeling weird because it's never come up before now.
Just let her know it's cool if she needs time, but that she shouldn't feel ashamed or bad about it. It's the 21st century, chicks do this all the time. Just make sure she understands that you are still her friend, whatever she does.
I'm thinking both of you are probably attractive, or else why would your male friends even WANT to see you two snog?
In the end, you only live once. But awkwardness is not worth loosing a friend over.
Flynn 24
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 September 2011):
BE FRIENDS? Heck, if you play your cards right you and she can be a real "item"......Good luck...
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