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writes:me and my friends girlfriend have been talking recently online and when we see each other in person. my friend isn't a good friend and he isn't a good boyfriend either and i don't see their relationship going anywhere.i told her on that i think she is a great person to talk to and she blushed also when i was walking to college i saw her on her bus to college and we both smiled at each other and it really made my day and today she went past again and we both smiled and i waved and she waved back it was the best part of my day. she also said that she though it was funny the first time we saw each other while she was on the bus because she wasn't expecting me to see her and that i smiled back.does it sound like she may have something for me?and before you guys ask my "friend" and i won't speak much after college because we don't really have much in common to be honest and he doesn't treat his girlfriend well either.if she does like me should i tell her my feeling to her or should i ask if she likes me?basically what do i do?i'm so confused thanks everyone Reply to this Question
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Well if he doesnt treat her well, then she should be the one having the problem and dealing with the relationship in the appropriate way. If she's that unhappy, she should walk out first before starting anything with you. Dont get into anything while they're still together.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 It sounds like there is something between the two of you and if you don't really care about this friend then I see it as you giving the girl a way out of a terrible relationship. I would talk to her and let her know that you like her and that you think he treats her like crap and she deserves better than that. After that things could fall into place if given time. She won't drop him instantly but you being there for her and showing what a guy who really cares is like will help her realize it on her own giving you two a much better start to your relationship.
Be prepared for one pissed off friend though, but I mean people who treat their partners like that basically deserve it. Just with your age grouping I immediately think thsi guy is going to do something stupid or if you date his gf right away people may not be happy with the two of you. The best thing you can do is be her nice flrity friend who she knows likes her so she can do this on her own.
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