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My friend doesn't make any effort to keep the friendship going--is this normal?

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Question - (2 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone

I have a question relating to a friendship. I have been friends with x for 7 years and we have a good friendship, the problem is that she doesnt always seem to want to make the effort to see me and sometimes doesnt bother to answer my calls or return my txt msgs.I am a worrier by nature! however I cant help feeling a bit paranoid about this relationship - I dont really want to mention any of this to her, I feel a bit silly - she might think I'm weird! Any advice would be greatly appreciated xxx

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A female reader, LauraE United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2007):

Maybe you text and call a bit too much? Do you always call to talk about your problems? If so, lighten up a bit. If not, I would find some new friends, and let her be until she wants to contact you. It may be that she doesn’t think the friendship is as important as you do, or she may just be lazy.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntMy best mate from school barely keeps in contact with me. I feel I chase her all the time these days. She never calls or texts or emails me. I do it all. I have backed off now as I'm fed up of doing it all the time. I'm waiting for her to get in touch with me.

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