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female
age
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anonymous
writes: Hi everyoneI have a question relating to a friendship. I have been friends with x for 7 years and we have a good friendship, the problem is that she doesnt always seem to want to make the effort to see me and sometimes doesnt bother to answer my calls or return my txt msgs.I am a worrier by nature! however I cant help feeling a bit paranoid about this relationship - I dont really want to mention any of this to her, I feel a bit silly - she might think I'm weird! Any advice would be greatly appreciated xxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LauraE +, writes (2 July 2007):
Maybe you text and call a bit too much? Do you always call to talk about your problems? If so, lighten up a bit. If not, I would find some new friends, and let her be until she wants to contact you. It may be that she doesn’t think the friendship is as important as you do, or she may just be lazy.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (2 July 2007):
My best mate from school barely keeps in contact with me. I feel I chase her all the time these days. She never calls or texts or emails me. I do it all. I have backed off now as I'm fed up of doing it all the time. I'm waiting for her to get in touch with me.
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