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My friend and I like the same guy, but I pretended not to - what should I do?

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Question - (5 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, *izz.Simone writes:

Me and my friend both like the same guy. I liked him first and my friend told me to go out with him but i couldn't since he was already going out with another girl. When he became single my friend all of sudden starts liking him . just to make my friend happy i told her that i didn't like him. But i still do!

What do i do? leave him to her or take him for me?

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A female reader, MiiSZJODDYY Canada +, writes (28 October 2007):

MiiSZJODDYY agony auntaahaha simonee.

this is about you and mee

;$ ;$

jeezz hes a loser noww

were both glad we don;t have himm

BUHAHA

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A female reader, loveableprincess United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2007):

loveableprincess agony auntif your friend only started liken him when he came single chances is she is just lookin for any guy to like her, but it sounds like you reaally do have feelings for him. so the best thing to do is tell your mate how u feel and she should understand, if she don't then the best thing 2 do is talk to the lad and see if he likes you back, and go from there. but if your mate does like him too and you don't wanna loose her as a friend then you may have to forget this guy, its up to you, is the guy worth it.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (5 October 2007):

Stick with your decision. Don't go after him at all, never.

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A female reader, just-ask-xx United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2007):

just-ask-xx agony auntI was in the exact same problem a couple years ago, what I did was come clean to my friend and tell her the whole truth - that I never stopped liking him - and my friend was angry at me for a while but then she realised something and we're still great friends :)

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