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*orriedfemale
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for a long time (well over a year now) and we've only just decided to have sex (we're both in our 20s but decided to wait until the time is right, which it is now!).However, I've never had sex and although he has he isn't all that experienced so I'm not sure what I should be doing during the actual sex (foreplay is fine, no problem there).I mean how should I be moving? I don't just want to lie there like a sack of potatoes lol, so what should I be doing? Do I move my pelvis up as he moves in and move it down as he moves out? Should I be meeting his thrusts etc? Or should I be doing something differently altogether?Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 July 2009):
 well they say experience maketh the maker..
so i'd say, once u sleep with him and gain that experience of sex u will come to know what u both like.
u dont need to thrust, (thats his job)
if your on top u need to go slow (with experience u can control the intensity of it all)
if your below i suggest u can tighten your muscles in your vagina, (when he's in) to highten the experience.
hope these little tips helps!
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): GO Doggystyle.This way you don't have to be too concerned.
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reader, SUICIDEVICTIM  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Not all porn is negative theres educational adult videos that you could probably benefit from you can even watch it with your partner. i suggest you give it a try
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reader, worriedfemale +, writes (12 July 2009):
worriedfemale is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDon't be so ridiculous! I am not watching any porn, those movies give such an unrealistic (and negative) image of sex (and people) that it's not even funny!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): I suggest you watch some soft porn first and get a visual idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Sort Of go with the flow, all girls are different some prefer to thrust like you said & some dont. Each person has there own way so dont worry, it'll come naturally. but if you get stuck? Thrust. dont just lie there. cause he may think 1) ur asleep (Not Good) And 2) ur dead (deffo not good!)
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