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writes:hi im a 16 year old girl, i recently got in a relationship but my boyfriend and i are having a far distence relationship and this is my first far distance relationship, the thing is that i dont know if he is serious about us,when i ask if he loves me he tells me yes,but im not sure if he really means it.what should i do.troubled
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): I'm 16 and having a long distance relationship and all I can say is none of us can tell you if he means it or not or how to find out. You should know, but does he tell you everything going on with him and I mean everything. I'm that close with my boyfriend and call it wierd but there are No secrets at all even childhood ones are all out, if there's any one hitting on me I let him know, i dont know why but it works well lol, not wantin to lose you that is. when you know everything or most of it at least, about him then you can really learn to trust and be comfortable with long distance.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (23 March 2008):
You can tell in exactly the same way as you can tell with someone that is sitting opposite you telling you that they love you.Long distance relationships are hard work and I am not convinced that at 16 they are really the best but some 16 year olds are more mature and experienced than some 40 year olds.
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reader, lovinit  +, writes (23 March 2008):
this opinion is coming from an 18 yr old with a bachelors degree and is currently in medical school to become a cardiac surgeon.. :) so here we go!well first im not sure if you are 30-35 female or 16 yr old female...long distance relationships are hard to work with because you don't know if the other person is cheating on you or not. how long have you been going out with him? has he showed 100% sincerity? if not red flag and be gone with him.personally, i couldn't tell a girl i loved her if i really didn't. while my friends could do it with such ease. if you think he is 100% sincere, then call him daily.... wait a second, better yet, if he calls you daily then he is hooked on you! if he does that then there is less or a percentage of him cheating because typically when you are cheating on someone you tend not to talk to them a lot because you are guilty. then you have my friends who can do it with ease! ( they are rare cases i think)let me know if this has helped you. if you have any questions or comments you can always personal message me and i will reply within the hour ( maybe more depending on medical school) i will be awaiting your reply :)
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