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writes: I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. The other night he put his fingers inside of me. I know what this means, but how do I make it feel better? He just kind of sat there. I will not have sex becuase I'm too young, but I don't mind other stuff because I trust him a lot. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 i think that your not ready or dont feel comfortable sexual relationship. if your boyfriend really respects you if you tell him your ready or you want to slow down he'll have no real problem with this. there is no need to rush into a sexual relationship take you time wait until you feel completely comfortable and ready.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (26 February 2006):
 Sounds like you need to slow it down a little, are you and him just trying stuff out and if so that is fine as long as he respects and understands that sex is not on the agenda until you are ready.
You did not like what he did because you were scarred and maybe not ready for this as even putting his finger inside you is a big step, maybe just go back to kissing and heavy petting for awhile, it sounds like he was not sure what to do either and was doing what he did because he felt you would like it, or because maybe one of his mates has said that is what he does with his girlfriend.
Both of you have plenty of time to experiment and when the time is right things will just fall into place and you will both enjoy what you are doing to one another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): It won't feel better unless your turned on. You were probably uncomfortable.
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