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writes:I have been on before about my fiance of 7 years kissing someone else well I tried to get over it went on holidays with him we got on great until we came back! Everything was fine but there is this genuine guy who likes me but will never jeaopardise anything for he just wants to see me happy n obviously at the moment im not so my fiance had a go at me bout this guy who fancied me and there was drink involved but he shoved me twice! I need loads of advise what should i do should i get married to this guy he denies even pushing me at all i do not know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): He denies pushing you now and a few years down the line when you've got a couple of kids in tow, he will deny he put that shiner on your face. He's been unfaithful, he's shoved you around, doesn't sound like true love to me. Get out now while you're young enough to enjoy yourself without any kids to support on your own. Why not give it a go with your admirer, I bet he'd treat you with respect.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 So you know another guy likes you, and yet you chose to stay with someone that has been unfaithful to you and pushed you about.
Personally if i were in your shoes i would not have to think twice, there are no children involved and you are young, so there are no worries about being to old and not being able to start again.I would disolve the relationship and have some you time, you have spent all of your teenage years in a relationship so maybe you should get out and live a little.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): You two are not ready to get married...you are very young and if your relationship is 7 years along, that means you were a child when you started....It sounds to me if he is unfaithful to you and shoving you even when you are drinking, then he does not respect you....Love without respect is not love.
I think this relationship has run it's course, that is my hunch. Move on, there is more out there you need to experience and learn from, you probably don't even know who you are without being defined by this long term relationship, and that is a bad thing for you and your well being....you need to be single for at least a year before you even think of marrying anyone else.
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