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writes:hi,I have 2 children and my relationship has faded into thin air. I was with their dad. He hardly comes to see the kids and when he does we end up in bed. What can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl +, writes (4 July 2007):
 I know all about that situation, because i was there myself only a few months ago.
It's hard to let go of someone wether you are still in love with them or not, but you really need to think about you now.
Could you move on while this is happening?
As hard as it is you really do need to stop the sexual contact, unless there is any chance of you getting back together.
You have to think about the children in the end, as they could end up getting very mixed signals and that really is not good for them.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): It's only natural. But i think you need to control yourself if you're not already in love with him. It may look like bad for some other people. But i don't blame your for being still attracted to him. He might just have the same feeling about you. Why don't you talk to him and tell him it's not right. Best to confront him, rather than have the wrong conclusion. Talk is always best...
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