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writes: My girlfriend says she needs 'time out', she's going through a divorce. But she was going through a divorce when we got together. What changed? She says she still loves me.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (18 April 2005):
 Ask her. Find out if it is due to the divorce that she needs time out or if there is another reason she hasn't communicated with you. Explain how she was going through her divorce when you first got together and that you are concerned that things may have changed for her. Communication is the most efficient tool in a relationship.It may simply be that there are issues within her divorce that she is having trouble adjusting to or she may be feeling that time on her own is needed now when perhaps she should have had that before. The only way to discover this is to sit down and talk.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2005): Good question, What changed? Maybe thing have gotten hard on her with the divorce, and she needs to sort things out for herself. Let her have her time to get over her marriage ending. If she truely does love you she will still be there when she has had her time to cope with it. If not then at least you know you did the right thing by giving her what she may really needed.
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