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writes:My Fiance and I have been together 4yrs now and things were great. well while I was at school 3 hours away from him we began having problems so we decided to break up til I came home for summer. well that meant we were seperated from Feb-may. when i came home he waited until the 4th of july to tell me he got some girl pregnant and that she was 5mnths. I was so upset. we talked and I thought that I was ok with this but the girl had the baby on nov 11th and I am pissed all over again but 10 times worse. I told him I didnt want kids ever since I had a Miscarrige 2 labor days ago. I really do love him but I dont want to deal with any kids. Im so confused please if anyone has advice please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): This is a tough one. I feel a lot of sympathy for you. You have been through a lot. Two miscarriages and now your boyfriend has impregnated someone else?! This is a very emotional time for you. He is the father of this child. He did not use protection and there are consequences. It will be a long tough road for you if you decide to ride it out. But I can testify that having so much emotional pain caused by his infedelity will only make you miderable to continue being with him. There are other, better fish in the sea.-So to speak. If I were you, I would try seperation and find someone that makes you truely happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): I would leave him he should have had enough respect to use protection with her. Then he waited until the 4th of July to tell you that she was having his baby its just wrong.
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