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writes:HI, i really need some advice. I have been with my fiance for about two and a half years, engaged for one year. but we were best friends for about three years before that. Recently we started having problems. He has OCD and that has started playing up on him really badly lately, especially when it comes to me. We have been fighting a lot, and every now and then he tells me he doesn't love me and wants to break up with me. As this is a part of what ever is going on in his head, this only really lasts from a few hours to a day.The moment he comes out of this state, he goes back to loving me and acting completely normal towards me. everything is great. This has been becoming more and more common lately though and its really getting more painful for me. I don't know how to deal with this.I love him sooo much and I don't want to loose him but the situation is hurting me way too much and I don't know what yo do. About two days ago, not the cause of a fight like usual, he told me out of the blue that he really doesn't love me anymore and just wants to be friends. I don't know whether to believe this as real or as another result of his mental illness. Please someone, give me some advice about what to do. Should I continue to fight for this relationship, or give up on it?
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reader, Lobeau  +, writes (8 August 2010):
As much as you love him do you really want to be with someone who is unsure that they love you?Your not going to want to deal with this the rest of your life.
You were friends before so you can be friends again.
Go find someone can appreicate your love and give you theirs too.
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reader, Lobeau +, writes (8 August 2010):
You may love him but can you can you really take hearing that he doesn't love you for the rest of your life?
If you were friends before then you can be friends again.
I think its time for you to find someone that will love you and you can believe really does.
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