A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have been intimate for four. We love each other a lot, and we've done almost everything .. sexually.But, he wants to try anal sex and I've never done that before. I want to know details, how it feels.. etc. Will it be gross? or good?Anybody who's had experience.. shed a little light on this for me!! Thanks
View related questions:
anal sex Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): trying anal for the first time can be tricky at first. its a very strange feeling. i suggest that you use alot of lube and warming up that area first before you try and it and make sure that the rules are clear with him. if you say to stop then he has to agree and stop. for some women this can be very pleasurable experience and for others its not. the important thing to remember when trying anal is to be totally relaxed and possibly have a good clear out before hand during the day so that there are no accidents. its ok not to like it if you find it uncomfortable and if u feel more comfortable you can set the pace on fast things go with it. you will find that ur boyfriend will like anal as its tighter there for him. sometimes it can take a little getting used to. i know this advice isnt much but i hope that its helped you. good luck with ur first experience and have fun xx
|