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writes: I have a great boyfriend who is very caring and sweet. He is always telling me how much I mean to him and how much he loves me but I just don't seem to feel the same. We have been together for 9 months and one day I feel that I am getting bored of him and the next I feel deeply in love with him. My feelings are all over the place and I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose him either. Please help me out with this problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): What did you do about this problem? I am in the same situation...been with my boyfriend for 10 months...literally 24/7 (we have all of our classes together, spend every waking moment together, sleep together...I don't even SHOWER alone anymore!). He is THE most amazing person I have ever met, and I feel SO awful for being so wishy-washy with him. I almost broke up with him once, and I never want to go through that again. But at the same time, I just don't have that "I love you SO much!" feeling anymore. I care about him, and thinking about not having him in my life anymore scares me to death...but can I go on so torn up about this? How can I FIX this??? How did you fix this???
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reader, smellassweet  +, writes (2 July 2006):
I am in the exact same situation. The time before last that i saw my bf i thought omg he is so sweet, i am so lucky, wow! but i saw him yesterday and he just pee'ed me off. He was exactly the same but the things i thought were sweet were just plain annoying. I ges i dont really have an answer but it seems like this is a normal thing. My friends tell me i see him too often. About 5 times a week! (We have only been going out for a month). I think this is just something that happens, i am trying the "absence makes the heart grow fonder" thing, but also just try to spice things up! And remember why you liked him so much in the first place, or if you were single- these things help me. good luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2006): I just want you to know, that you are not the only one out there feeling like this. I have just found this site and am in the same predicament as you. My boyfriend is also a good person and my kids like him a lot which makes it harder. He is uneducated and I allow it to get to me. He tells me all the time he loves me and that I am the best thing that walked this earth were his words. I certainly don't know what to do. Right now I cannot return the love he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): Tell him you're bored and you want to spice things up. Brainstorm together and see what creative juices come to mind.
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