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writes:Okay so i've been seeing a guy for the last 2 months.We get along really well and have alot in common.My problem is he doesn't call, or initiate text msgs... but will always pick up and talk, or text me staright back when i initiate the communication.He always tells me what he's been up to... and asks me. And everytime we arranged to meet up/hang out we do, and have a great time.We're both pretty busy with work/uni/friends and it's always 4 or 5 days between the times i call or msg to see what he's been up to/ask if he wants to do something again soon.I guess i'm just hoping someone can shed some light on what might be going on in his head at this stage of the relationship.And also, should i make a point of not initiating contact for once to see if he ever will?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Some guys are like that, I have been with my boyfriend three years and we love each other dearly. But he never calls me and it's always me making first contact. Leave him be for a week.. No contact, he will contact you. then prob go back to his old ways. Don't take it personaly. It's just him. xxx
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reader, woodsc21  +, writes (26 September 2007):
Maybe he doesn't want to seem needy and clingy so he wants you to initiate conversation. I know I was like this for a while, because I didn't want to annoy her or push her away. He likes you texting and calling him so when you do talk he has no problem responding. Maybe his last relationship ended because he always started talking first. Just talk to him and ask him why he always waits for you to talk to him first.. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): 'Aussie man' syndrome here!
Leave off for a week and see what happens. He just might try contacting you for a change, then when he does, tell him you're a little busy at the moment and could he call back tomorrow or the day after.
Play hard to get - it could concentrate his mind - you never know!
Phil
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