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writes:Hi, i am looking for some advice.... it's a bit of a tricky situation.I have been divorced for about 4 years but just recently i have started talking to my ex again on the internet (About 18 months)on and off.The thing is i still think about her alot and i know that she would like to give it another go (Even tho i cheated). The thing is she is now married again with children but we do really have a connection, please help!! What do i do?
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 You said it 'thing is shes married'. She is not available to get into a relationship with you. And what about the kids. Would you be happy with her leaving her marriage and kids to be with you knowing how many lives you would be destroying. And what happens if she brings the kids with her could you cope with a ready made family with the kids resenting you from the start for breaking up the family. It spells disaster so you need to knock this on the head and let her get on with her life.
Aunty t
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): The answer is to back out of this one and move on. You've already had a relationship with her which failed plus you cheated on her. Also, apart from that, it wouldn't be fair on her husband and children if you took her away from her. Imagine if you had a long-term relationship with her and it was time to meet the kids. How do you think the kids would feel. They would probably be thinking 'oh here's the guy who ripped mum and dad's marriage apart to have another go at things with mum'. You don't want that do you? So stay out of it and find a woman who both you haven't had a relationship with already plus isn't married.
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