A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:This is an extended HELP to all those out there how has loved and lost. I have never loved someone unconditionally until now and he left my life. How does one really get over this? Background, I'm successful physician, money is not a issue, I'm attractive young female who can have fun anywhere, comfortable with my body and myself. Other men find me attractive. The one time I decided to give myself to someone (forever) he bolted. He has had 2 previous relationships with women who both cheated on him and he went 2 years without seeing his son. I do not think this is typical. So this is not me, right??Maybe he can just never know what it is like to love someone unconditionally and open his heart??
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 July 2007):
 The anonymous poster has it just right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Breaking up is hard. It makes you doubt yourself. Truth is it's not all his fault or all about his shortcomings. Just like a relationship working takes two to make it work, when it does not it is two who contributed to the problems. You may want see him as the one with problems right now because you are hurt and this makes you feel better, but unless you look more realistically and do a little self reflection whatever happened may repeat itself in another relationship. I have no idea what the problems were but I think if you are honest with yourself you do. It is good that you are attractive and sucessful, your chances for a new relationship are really good, so don't let this get you too down.
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