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writes:For some of you member's on here you may remember my old questions I asked over the summer and last spring. For those Who don't know me and my gf have broken up over the summer after a period of drifting apart due to her seeing another guy on the side. Last august we had our last conversation which started with her constantly nagging me to talk to her and asking how I'm doing. When we finally did talk it turned out in the end all she had to say was she never loved me and there's no chance of getting back together again.Well over 3 months have passed and for the most part I've been doing ok. I've been occupying my time with other things and learning to enjoy life without her.2 nights ago however she sent me an email out of the blue explaining how she's sorry for what she said and did and that she acknowledges her behavior was inappropriate and her words were hurtful. She even admitted she was unwise about how she handled the situation. She goes on to talk about how she's been thinking of me lately and hoping that I'm doing well. What surprised me the most was the end where she mentioned that she hopes we can reconcile everything that happened between us although she doesn't think I'd want to after what happened yet she still wants to reconcile with me somehow.Why I'm here seeking help for this is because I don't know how to really interpret her message. It's obvious she wants to be forgiven and she wants to know how I'm doing but she's taking it even further by wanting to see me and reconcile things. Does this indicate that she wants to work things out and get back together or just friends? I know nobody has the answer, I just want to hear different perspectives on this and whether or not it would be wise to respond. I appreciate all the help and the time taken to read my post.
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reader, zakman123  +, writes (18 November 2011):
Hi from my view of reading this, it seems she does want to reconcile, but do you know what the reason for it is? From past experience i can only assume its because she doesnt have a man in her life and she feels lonely. If i were in your shoes i would tell her id gladly be friends but nothing more than that. You could end up being used and cheated on again. Hope i helped
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