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*hoongalicious
writes:Okay basically I have been going out with this guy for 8 months, we split up last year over stupidness and this year he broke up with me cos of a text from one of my exes. Everyone is saying he does not deserve me and stuff buh, I know how he really is he is so lovely to me and whatever.I am just wondering about something last week I saw him and he was making all the moves, kissing me and touchin me and I was just standing there. It is almost like he still has feelings for me, but he feels that he should not. Anyway he said that was the last time that he would see me and that he would never call me again, but he has called me since then. I wrote him a letter ages ago and I sent it to him and he read it and he wants to meet up on Friday again, should I go? What should I wear? How should I act? omg, any advice please, please help me hopefully before friday evening. Thankyou so much!
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reader, Choongalicious +, writes (24 June 2007):
Choongalicious is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for all your advice, ummm yeh I know that Frank you said not to go, but I was curious I felt that I needed complete closure or something like that and he said he likes me and he still finds me attractive, but he is not ready to rush into our relationship again because he wants to think about everything and take things into consideration, so I guess I am going to let him do that, there is nothing else I can do. It hurts because he is my first love and I never wanted to let him go. I have not cried since Friday so, I guess that is a good thing I am trying to keep a clear head and to keep busy. Thanks again for your advice and if you have anything else to say feel free to say it. x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Firstly, relax, and get a grip.
No, do not meet with him.
The more time you spend with an ex, the less opportunity you have to meet your future soulmate.
What is more important to you? You past ex, or your future soulmate?
Here is a hint...if you two broke up in the past, you are not future soulmates. Maybe past soulmates, but not future soul mates.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I would go, dress casually and ask him what he wants from your relationship as the picking up and dropping cant carry on. You either get together, just be friends or he leaves you alone. He cant continue to play with your emotions like he's been doing.
Good Luck!
xxxxxxx
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