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writes:My girlfriend and I broke up last night, it was sweet and delicate, but after fighting regularly we got so tired of it all and decided to call it quits...she wants to move out of state sometime this year and i don't so in a way it took care of the long distance relationship thing...so we both have been greiving and she texted me from her job asking for us to give it one more shot...this stop go thing is heart wrenching and I am taking our priorities and goals and dreams all in to consideration...this has been the third or fourth major talk and break up conversation...we love each other but frequently butt heads...when it is good it is fabulous but when it is bad it is bad! What are some things to consider when faced with this decision?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): The way I've always seen it is, if you even feel that pang of doubt in the back of your mind, your heart won't be totally in it, making it painful for both parties. I say drop it for good... I had to do the same thing in high school with a long term boyfriend, but that boy is one of the best friends I could ever ask for because we know each other so well from our relationship, but knew where to draw the line before either one of us got hurt and turned our back on the other. So if she really means something to you, but you just can't find it in your heart to go back to her, I say give a rest and see what happens.
I'm crossing my fingers for you... hopefully, you'll figure this out a little more painlessly than I did (:
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