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*ove forever
writes:Yea...when me and my ex broke up....it ended badly....I told him that he was not a real bf cause he didn't stand up to me.. I tried reaching out to him last week through facebook. Today he unfriended me...why? I asked him and sent him a new friend request.Is he still mad? I said sorry and stuff...and it was a huge problem why we ended: his friend started a rumor and he didn't stand up.My ex knows that I went back to my other ex....can this be the reason? Or was my anger? How can I fix it?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (11 July 2010):
 There are plenty of other people to be friends with, so leave him alone. He doesn't want to be friends with you, and your many attempts to contact him aren't going to make him change his mind. It's over, move on.
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reader, love forever +, writes (11 July 2010):
love forever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've tried texting, messaging him. I even tried calling him.
Well my ex is very sensitive and apparently when he gets mad, its for a long time..
But I honestly just wanna be friends. He was a good friend.
And in a way he ended it, or was going to, so I hate being dumped so I wrote him a poem a while back, gave that to him with two notes: one was saying he doesn't have to read the poem and the other ending and explaining...
but we did talk for like a week afterwards
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 I think your ex is acting sensible. Exes are exes for a reason, there is seldom any point in remaining friends after the story is over. Plus ,like you said it ended badly ,maybe he still holds a grudge, but anyway he does not feel like keeping in touch with you. Let him be and let him move on successfully just like you did.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (11 July 2010):
Why wouldn't he? He's your ex, and you said yourself it ended badly. It's completely understandable that he doesn't want to be in touch right now, he's probably not over the break-up yet, and therefore doesn't want to be reminded of you while he's still getting over it.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Not everybody wants to be friends after a breakup, not much you can do about it but respect their decision and move on. If you really want to know why then you can only really find out by asking him.
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