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writes:I was in a realtionship for 8months we broke up about 1 1/2 month ago. 3 days later he was talking to someone else I just wonder sometimes did he care for me the way that he said he did. Its just strange how peole ask him about me and he say that we were just frineds we were never in a realtionship when I know we were. I seen him pass by the other day he blew his horn but I never waved at him because the way I see it he was wrong for what he did and he is full of ****.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013): Well how do you know he is seeing someone else? And who are these people who said that he speaks of you in this light? Did you hear any of this from HIS mouth?Look, people talk. How can you be sure the people who are relating this information to you are being honest with you or even have good intentions? Cause if any of my friends' ex boyfriends were trashing them after they've broken up, I wouldn't bother telling my friend. What's the point? All it is going to accomplish is that my friend will feel hurt as you feel. And what's the point of that? True friends dont want to see their friends sad that is why I am weary of who is telling you this stuff and what their intention is. Whoever planted this seed in your head sounds like they want to hurt you. The only thing a friend should forewarn you about is stuff like if she knows a guy is cheating on you or something that you should know about while in a relationship cause it could hurt you. But the information you've been given is gratuitous and unnecessary. It's too much information. And I believe it was planted in your head to hurt you. So don't let it! Be more skeptical and more confident of what you know in your heart is the truth, no matter what any one says. Bottom line is you should be more skeptical of the intentions of the person telling you this stuff than of your ex, who you don't even know for a fact if he said any of this or even really felt this way.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 March 2013):
 It's over and done... maybe you felt more than he did.
it was 8 months and it ended for whatever reasons... clearly it was not enough for him for whatever reasons and he never considered it a full on relationship even if you did.
But it's been 6 weeks. Time to let it go and move on.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 Hi
He is history, it ended 6 weeks ago. Yes ofcourse he would have cared but now he is showing what an idiot he *really* is. Whether he cared or not is irrelevant, your better off single
Don't worry,wonder or look back,just focus on a very happy future - without him.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (14 March 2013):
 HI
Sounds like a jerk....but don't waste your breath or energy for one more second on him. Find yourself someone who will show you love and respect not use you untill something better came along. Sadly some people get off on using others but Karma has a GREAT way of coming back to bite these people on the arse :D
Mandy x
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 One and a half months ? It starts being too much time to keep dwelling on the hows and whys, to keep "wondering ". What use is it to wonder ?
I mean, yes, it is very probable that he did not care as much as he said, if he broke up , or led you to break up, after only 8 months then found someone else in just 3 days. People can lie, you know. Or else, he was sincere , he did care until it lasted, but since it only lasted 8 months, he cared but not terribly. He cared somewhat .
The fact is, only he can know for sure what he was thinking and you can't read his mind, so you have to come to terms with the realization that you'll never know 100% for sure.
Does it really matter ? Why dwelling on the past if you have no possibility or no intention to resurrect it ?
Move on, stop thinking what he may have meant or wanted or thought, and start caring about yourself and preparing a happier future for yourself.
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