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How do I get my manager away from the competition?

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Question - (14 March 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, *essicaFlorida writes:

I work in the restaurant business.

My district manager comes to our store a lot

He's been flirty with me until this new girl

Got there she's not any hotter than I am.

A co worker said we look like sisters.

She's my competition.. he still flirts w

Both of us but how do I win him over?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (14 March 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhat are you winning him over for?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013):

Go with the advise CMMP gave you if you're looking for a one night stand. Of course, the other girl could start doing the same thing. But if you're only looking to "score" with him, his having interest in other women shouldn't bother you, anyway.

Now, if you're looking to make him your boyfriend, that's a different story. I want you to consider something first. If he were your boyfriend, could you deal with his flirty behavior toward other women? Because a person who is naturally flirty isn't likely to change once in a relationship. At least not at first. Are you the jealous type? If so, this guy is NOT for you.

If you CAN deal with it, then win him over with your sense of humor and intelligence. Guys will go for a "bimbo" for a one night stand, but they want a girl they can carry on a conversation with for a girlfriend. Surely if you want him as a boyfriend, you want him to think you have more to offer than your looks...am I right?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (14 March 2013):

Tisha-1 agony auntWin him over as in, become his girlfriend? Or win him over as in, have a one night stand with him? Could you be a bit clearer as to your goal?

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (14 March 2013):

Wear something that shows more boobs.

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