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writes:I feel like such a saddo... but I have been on and off with this guy for 3 years. Lost my virginity to him, shared all of my horrific past with him and I really do love him. Here's the catch... he slept with 2 of my best friends :( ... but you know what silly little things love can make you do... and I got back with this loser. But we have broken up AGAIN, and I am still crazy about him. He kept dumping me to prove a point when we argued then just EXPECTED me to get back with him... so I said no. Then I regretted it, and ended up pouring our hearts out to eachother saying we would get back together... few days later on my Birthday... he gets a new Girlfriend. They are still together, yet he still shows up at my house and emails me saying he loves me, and he wants me back after he's finished things with his girlfriend... and when he found out I had FINALLY slept with someone else... he called me a slut and a slag and everything under the sun. I still love him :(PLEASE some one help me get out of this misery :( I cry myself to sleep every night thinking of him, feeling like its my fault. I just want to get over him :( I beg someone to help :(Thank you sweetheartsxxx
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reader, nallia  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 i agree with these guys, i am 23 and experienced what you are now.
i thought the guys would change, be better and he turned around after having sex with me slept with someone from my past mere 10 hours after me. and he confessed all his feelings of love.
then when i asked why a week later, his words were "i got what i want out of you now i am done" but yet he still was giving me false hope for the future to keep me tagged.
this guy you are talking about is no better, all he is doing is keeping you on a leash as a back up, knowing if he tells you pretty things and makes you feel like you are a princess, that you will come back, with your heart on your sleeve. they are what he would would call you or what the type like him call "convenient" they don't have to try anything to get into your pants just bat there pretty blues and confess "there undying love" for you and your legs open up to him like the golden bridge.
don't fall for the manipulation you diserve better i am living proof. i am dating a guy i knew is college for four years. we have been dating 7 months and i took his virginity (i was 22 he was 22) in four. he is very understanding never would hurt me intentionally, and will be there regardless of the situation. he even went as far as watching me cry because i was confused between my feelings for him and the guy i was describing prior because the prior suspect was a manipulative ass and knew what to say to get me to turn. anyway, he even said he understood and just wanted me happy. i actually ended up crying harder, hugging him and asked "why are you so understanding" he laughed because he was home schooled and didn't even know there were men that treat girls like they do like the one you and i had experienced. we are still together going strong and i wouldn't trade it for the world
my word of advice ditch the ass whole don't get involved because it just gets worse, and they can't change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): You don't really love this jerk, you're lonely and feel like you're never going to have a boyfriend again. Wrong! Wake up and smell the coffee!! He's treating you like dirt and you're letting him!! How can you love someone that slept with 2 of your best friends, breaks up with you to get his own way and expects you to come crawling back, and wants to get back together AFTER he's done with his current girlfriend??!! Come on, now. The only way you are going to feel better is to cut all contact with him and put your life back together-with a big emphasis on your self esteem!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): your ex is am attention seeking idiot. Ignore him, he wants to mess you around he is actively trying to make you hurt. Find a way to show him you don't care, even if you do. He needs to be put in his place, he is an ex and this behavior is proof it should stay that way.?good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): There is absolutely no future with this guy. He thinks he's got you on a string. Unless you want him picking you up and putting you down on his whims you do need to free yourself of him. No matter how badly he treats you - you still love him.This isn't really love but addiction. You have to bump up your self esteem and say 'I'm worth more than this'.
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