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writes:Been one month n half no contact from ex he had me blocked from whatsapp now suddenly unblocked me and im still a contact in his phone cause I can see. I was infertile so he left me cause i respected something he wanted of course hurt was involved we was with each other pockets for 5 yrs an in culture a woman that cant concieve well men can leavr vice versa. Anyway having told him from the get go along with other medical complications he was much aware of. He said its just kids i dont believe entirely anyway what does it mean? he is looking to make contact sometime soon? Ex unblocks keeps u as contact why? i know its definitely to rekindle but feel he will disturb peace.
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (11 February 2022):
Maybe unblocking you was a mistake or a computer glitch rather than a deliberate act.
I once blocked a boyfriend on a social media site only to find that he was unblocked again a few months later - and not by me. Easily sorted -I simply blocked him again.
Don't read too much into it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2022): This is a head-game. Even after he left you high and dry; you're supposed to languish and lament over him dumping you.
Were you ever married? Did he divorce you through talaq?
Unblocking you online, is like leaving a door slightly cracked. Daring you to peek! One reason is to see if you have moved-on, or if you'll still stalk him online. Probably testing the waters before he starts posting to other women. He doesn't necessarily want to hear from you; he just wants to see what you're up-to in his absence. Maybe he wants to see if you'll spy on him, and he might be spying on you too. He will know if you're visiting his feed, or spying on him. His ego would appreciate knowing you're still heart-broken and alone. Just be careful, my dear.
In your conservative culture, it's not a good idea for an unmarried or Arab woman to aggressively pursue a man. It's considered too forward. I would not let him tease me if I were in your shoes. Be cautious.
If he has any good intentions behind it; it's safer to let him contact you first. If he has had a change of heart, let him be the one to come to you and let you know. That way, if you tried to contact him first, and he ignores you; he can't break your heart again.
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reader, kenny +, writes (10 February 2022):
 Maybe after you broke up he was still quite bitter so blocked you. Now after some time has gone by and he has had time to reflect and has decided to unblock you. I don't think that this means he wants to establish contact.
I still have people on my whatsapp that i have been out with in the past that are just lying dormant, just because they are there does not mean i have any plans on contacting them.
It sounds like you would not be keen on him making contact anyway as it will disturb your peace as you say. If that is the case then why don't you block him, then you don't have to worry then do you.
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