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writes: Hi all, I would really appreciate your help in this matter. Some time ago I started up an affair with a colleague of mine. Both of us were already in relationships. Cut a long story short, we fell in love and then I had to move to a different building. We broke up as she felt guilty about everything, and over the last year our friendship got worse and worse and all we done was argue. Eventually we barely spoke. Now on Monday I bumped into her at work; we didn't really talk that much, more made little digs at each other. But all of sudden at the end of the night, she changed towards me. She texted me and phoned me saying she missed me and wanted me back in her life again and that she never wanted to lose me again. However she said it would only be as friends as we both knew it was wrong to start an affair again. Over the last couple of days she has continued to text me saying she was really happy again and really wanted to meet me again and that we could have a kind of loving and affectionate relationship enjoyed by most couples, but only as friends!!!!. I still love her deep down, although I think she doesn't know that, and I am really confused about this as she is telling me she wants me as a friend, but seems to be giving me other signals. PLEASE PLEASE HELPThanks for reading this
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):
This woman is toying with you, if she really wants you as a friend, she wouldn't be making empty promises about becoming a couple. Remain friends with this woman if you wish but make it clear to her that you are not interested in a relationship with her. Once she sees she can't pull your strings anymore, her attitude may change.
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