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writes: Well,this boy i used to go out with and i just broke up with my boyfriend and now my and my ex are starting 2 get really close and now he is asking if we can have sex and i said ok but where should we and he said at your house and then he says when your alone phone me ill come and i said ok.We was chatting on msn and he keeps asking are you home alone and im saying say no and im telling the truth. and then i said why are you so obsessed and then he got it in a wrong way and started saying you know what forget what we both said i dont care nomore and i said no. I think he is angry at me and now i dont know what to do ????please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): I think you should just tell him that you wouldn't want him to be angry but have it some other time.
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reader, Mr. Buddy +, writes (23 April 2006):
he sounds like a jerk off to me and only wants sex i say drop him until he changes his ways.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (23 April 2006):
 You don't state your age, but you seem quite young and although you may be flattered your ex has made it clear he would like to have sex with you now you are no longer with your boyfriend, you should make sure that its not the only thing he is after.
You don't say if you are going out together now or just want to have sex together, be careful this guy is not just using you!
You should never feel under pressure to have sex with anyone, at any age, and you need to be sure that you are really ready to have sex with your ex. If he wants to more than you, he'll have to wait until your ready, and if he's decent and respects you he will wait and stop going on about it.
If you are ready to have sex with him, PLEASE act responsibly, use condoms and protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
To be honest, I don't see why you don't wait till you are in an ongoing relationship with someone that cares a lot about you and who you trust and care about equally. This situation seems a bit one sided to me.
Good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006): You are making yourself a doormat to this guy. He is doing it to see if you come crawling back so he has you in the palm of his hand. If you give into this he'll use you as his regular booty call/doormat for the rest of his life. Don't be stupid and give in to it. To be honest, he's probably having a good laugh with his mates that you are so available to meet his sexual needs.As I said, DONT be so stupid. He's using you. Can't you see that?Good luck.
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (23 April 2006):
 To me it sounds like he is desperate for Sex i think you should try and talk to him about why he got angry at you because it sounds to me like you dident do anything wrong. Talk to him and if he still acts horribly towards you then i dont think you should be getting together with him for sex because its obvious that he has little regard for you if hes getting angry over a simple question.
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