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writes:I don't really have to get into the past details of my relationship so that you can understand how much this person means to me so I'll spare you from a long story. However, what I will let you know is my present situation. My ex cheated on me and she broke it off. I was devastated but after a while we became good friends and she became part of my friendship circle. However history repeats itself and while we were friends she slept with her first boyfriend. In fact the reason she cheated on me before was that she never really got over him. Deep down I feel I need to move on But that idea has become far too distant because she still hangs out with the group. After what she did I stopped talking to her. Mostly because of anger but also because I really want her to find what she really wants. I know she misses me but she’s pulled the “I miss you” card on me and the “I still love you card” when she gets heartbroken by her first so this means nothing to me. I want her back but the only way I can take her is if she comes back with the love I have for her. I know if and when this happens because after all the lies that fooled me I can now tell what truth sounds like. Would it be better if I stopped seeing her altogether so that I can give her the space she needs without her having to feel sorry for doing what she wants to in front of me? It hurts her to see me hurt. I’m void of it but even a diamond has a weakness. I always know that there is more of a chance that she'll never love me the way I deserve to be loved. Enduring through all the problems I deserve respect and nothing less. I can take more hits I'm a fighter for the things I believe in but I feel like it's her turn to fight. Not for me but to find out what’s right for her. Should I stay or should I go. Deep down going feels right.Searching for his romance,A Crownless King
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): i think u should let her figure what she really wants if u dont things may end up the same again and if u feels in your she will do it again maybe u should moveon.
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reader, Rex0328 +, writes (25 August 2008):
Rex0328 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx cupidguy. But you are forgetting a crucial part: the friendship circle. Forget my friends so that I can forget her? Is that a risk I have to take?
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