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writes:I honestly can't figure out why my ex continues to drive by my house and call me with a private number after leaving me almost 2 yrs. ago. In those 2 yrs. he has been with 4 different woman, the first being the longest (several mths.) and she is the one who ended it. All during that relationship he was seen driving by my house on several occasions and still continues to do so. I'm not sure which one ended the other relationships but, he is as far as I know still with the 4th one.I have not spoken to my ex since the breakup so as far as he knows I have moved on. If he is so concerned with what I am doing than why can't he approach me face to face. I also, know it is him who keeps calling because I had a male friend answer my phone. He thinks he is being clever by listing his number as private but, I would like to add that he has not called since my friend answered over a week ago. Before that he was calling just about every day.If he wants me back, why can't he man up about it instead of playing games. I can't figure out why else he would be doing all this. Your opinions would be appreciated.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 May 2012):
 How about because he's a creep??!!
I HAD an ex who kept tabs on me until I deleted my FB and cut contact with people who probably let information about me slip.
Some men are just cowardly and are nosey. I suppose my ex still had a thing for me if he was bothering to keep tabs on me.
If you want to get back together with him or find out what is his deal, then why didn't you answer the phone when he called? Why did you let your male friend answer? Or flag him down when you see him creeping past your home?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (6 May 2012):
My opinion is that your effort seems wasted in analysing your ex. I think you've had enough of his crap so just leave him be with his games and just move on with your own life. Stop sinking to his level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): Well he is oviously one of the guys that likes games he sounds creepy though and very immature you really want him back? Well maybe you should write him or call him ask him what his problem is see what he has to say otherwise ignore him, but 2 yrs is a long time. Has he been doing this everyday since you broke up or just recent? But if you do want him back maybe note when he drives by and stand outside and wave lol. Ask him what's going on or call whatever you prefer but you don't want to act like you want him back. Play the game like guys want what they can't have when they play games! I know it sounds dumb but we're talking about men here lol. Men like a challenge and a chase maybe he thinks you want him back and when your friend answered he thought you moved on even though he don't call does he drive by still?
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